Find out the type of men to steer clear of in the dating world with
helpful tips from the matchmakers at Portland Singles!
Often, you might get caught up in the spur of the moment and agree to
go on a date you just met. Sometimes it
's because you pity him, which of course is not a good reason to go on a date
with someone, or maybe he caught you off guard and you did not have a good
reason why you couldn't go. Or, perhaps
you just decided, why not since you were feeling happy that day.
But now you are out with him, and find yourself wondering how this ever
happened--How will you ever get through this miserable date? But what is it about him that is bothering
you? How is he behaving? Is it just your nerves, or is something
telling you to get out of there? Well,
be vigilant and have your instincts on high alert. There are many signs you can watch out for
and certain personality traits that you can detect. And if you notice any of the traits below,
don't ever go out with this guy again.
Men with these types of traits need to be avoided like the a plague.
Tip: Portland Singles has many male members with positive traits
who are looking to start a long and meaningful relationship.
The Boring One
Once you are alone with this type of man you literally have to pinch
yourself to stay awake. He goes on and
on in his monotone voice--It almost feels like you've taken five sleeping pills
and can't keep your head up. It is very
difficult to be around a man like this.
And you feel like you could literally bash your head on the table as
he's telling all these boring stories.
But you might be the type that doesn't know how to stop it or how to
stop him--So you let it go on and on because you’re afraid to break his
heart. You need to let him down gently,
but it must be done, explains Portland Singles--This type of guy can
suck the life out of you.
The Over Confident One
You can spot this type of man from a mile away, explains Portland
Singles. His cocky swagger and macho
personality speak volumes of him. And if
you are able to get the hint, you should never allow yourself to date this type
of man. While all women like a man who
is confident, when it comes to cockiness it's a completely different
story. Unless you are the passive type
of woman who doesn’t mind having your decisions made for you, then you can go
with the flow. Otherwise, stay far away
from this type of man.
The Penny Scrapper
While you don't necessarily like to be treated like a queen, you would
at least want the occasional gift and nice dinner from time to time,
right? Although you don't mind splitting
the bill, you probably never thought you'd have to do it on a first date. This type of man puts a new meaning to the
word, stingy. Not only does he never
offer to pay, but he actually doesn't mind leaving you with the whole
bill. He's always counting his quarters
and trying to find the cheapest form of entertainment. Unless he has many other good qualities and
you don't mind paying for all the dinners and dates from now on, being in a
relationship with this type of man will leave you filing for bankruptcy at one
point or another. Okay, maybe not
bankruptcy, but he's going to be pretty draining.
The Egotistical Kind
This type of man should come with a warning label on his forehead. And it should read, "Don't date
me." Women always say they like a
man who is able to share his feelings and not hold back, but this type of man
takes it to a whole new level, explains Portland Singles. You would like to know more about this man,
but not all in one hour. He is so full
of himself he doesn't even know when to stop.
He's either bragging about his career, his flashy new car, or his
penthouse overlooking the city--He thinks he's God's gift to women and that no
woman is able to resist him. But what he
doesn't know is that this attitude is a major turn off for women, states Portland
Singles. If you have dealt with this
type of man before, then you know how much of a pain in the neck they can
be. This type of man should never be
dated if you want to have an equal part in the relationship.
The Aggressive One
Have you ever met a man who was so pushy and overbearing you couldn't
wait to leave the date? This is the type
of man who gets angry over the littlest things, explains Portland Singles. His belligerent attitude and angry temper
make it very uncomfortable to be next to him.
In the beginning, he might put on a happy, normal front to treat you
well, but if you watch him closely, his behavior with others will let you know
how he truly is. He will totally lose
his cool when the waiter doesn't bring out his food the way he ordered it, or
how he almost puts the taxi driver through the glass because he didn't arrive
on time. Don't date this type of man,
they're trouble.
The Lusty One
All women know this type of man.
He's the type of man who can undress you with his eyes, but not in a
nice way. You know when you're out with
this type of man because he's not looking into your eyes, he's looking down at
your cleavage. You often find him
talking to your chest throughout the middle of the date, and he even touches
you when you're walking out of the restaurant.
If this type of man had x-ray vision, women would be in a world of
trouble.
The Mama's Boy
Have you ever heard of that classic mama's boy? Of course you have, everyone has. Well, this type of man needs his mother for
everything in life, explains Portland Singles. When it comes to life decisions, he needs his
mother's opinions. But now that you're
with him, you notice he doesn't consult you about decisions, not even ones that
involve the both of you--He consults his mother instead. Don't date this type of man if you want to
have a healthy and happy relationship.
The Insecure One
He lacks self-esteem and everything falls on you--His insecurities come
out in different ways, explains Portland Singles. He could be suspicious of your every move and
question you about all your motives. He
is very jealous, especially if your career is better than his. And don't be surprised when he becomes
possessive because you're not spending every minute of your day with him. Portland Singles explains that this
type of man is very clingy and needy, and will leave you feeling drained.
